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Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 02:31 am
my grandma just died


May 15, 1912----March 24, 2007
Rest in peace Grandma. You're with Dad and Grandpa now.


I'm not as upset as I think I should be and that makes me feel a bit guilty. We were expecting this since November, she's been having horrible days and not so bad days but no good days. She isn't suffering anymore which might be the reason I'm not horribly upset. My Uncle and my cousin Dayna drove down from Oregon early Friday morning and got in not too much before Grandma died, which was about a half hour ago or so. Funeral is either Sunday or Monday, we (Jews) tend to get that over with quickly. I don't have a dark top, I do have a nice blue blouse though. I'll wear my nice dress pants that are black.
The photo was taken a couple of years ago, when my cousin Ben had his Bar Mitzvah.

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Current Location: Los Angeles, CA USA
Current Mood: guilty guilty
Current Music: Turn! Turn! Turn!---The Byrds

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weaz3l
weaz3l
Aleks
Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 10:18 am (UTC)

*hugs tightly*
I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family have been in my thoughts since you messaged me the other night. But you're right, it's best she is no longer suffering anymore because no one deserves to suffer. If you need anything you know how to find me.


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box_of_sorrows
Box Of Sorrows
Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 12:41 pm (UTC)

I'm so sorry to hear flower, hope you really are okay.


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z3nyatta
z3nyatta
Val
Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 02:54 pm (UTC)

Please do not feel guilty. My suitemate and I had a long talk on Thursday about this because her grandpa is very sick. She told me she wished he would get better but she didn't think he would and she just didn't want him to be in pain anymore. When they get so sick it is so hard. Because when you love someone you want them to get better. But when you know that they won't get better you just want them to not be suffering anymore. And you shouldn't feel guilty for being relieved that she is no longer in pain. Hang in there, we're here for you.


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z3nyatta
z3nyatta
Val
Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 02:57 pm (UTC)

grrr...it told me that it didn't go through, and the comment wasn't there so I reposted. But then it was there. I deleted the copy.


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evilcresyluna
evilcresyluna
Miss Celie of the North
Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 04:04 pm (UTC)

*huggles* It isn't wrong and you shouldn't feel guilty, I've read several times on here that you felt she was near the end. Of course you didn't want to see her suffer, you loved her - not wanting her to have more 'horrible days' is nothing to be guilty about.


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amelia_seyroon
amelia_seyroon
The Princess of Seyruun
Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 05:09 pm (UTC)

*hugs*

I hope she had a good long life.

My grandfather died last October.


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penguinsane
Mayhem
Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 05:35 pm (UTC)

Don't feel guilty, I felt the same way when my grandmother passed away, too.

She was surrounded by family and friends, and you can't really ask for a better way to go out than that! Sorry for your loss. <3


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bellelvsbeast
bellelvsbeast
Officer Kelli
Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 05:40 pm (UTC)

I'm sorry sweetie...:( I wasn't 100% upset when my great grandma died when I was in Oregon and I felt guilty too...and she was also not doing well so it wasn't a huge surprise...I'm glad she isn't suffering anymore...
We didn't even have a funeral, or anything. She didn't want one...I kind of wanted something though, to say goodbye but it was her choice.
I'm sure you will look nice in your outfit
*hugs* sweetie...
She lived a nice long life...
Wow she was the same age as my great grandma...


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masterofmercury
masterofmercury
She Who Has Porned
Sat, Mar. 24th, 2007 05:54 pm (UTC)

I'm so sorry, hon *hugs tight*


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mudblood428
mudblood428
Venessa
Sun, Mar. 25th, 2007 12:38 am (UTC)

I am so very sorry. Don't feel guilty - really, these things tend to get us all mixed up after they happen, so you never know if your feelings will change tomorrow. And if they don't, it certainly doesn't mean you didn't love her as much as any granddaughter would love their gran.

HUGE hugs to you. If you need anything, I'm here.


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angelwings2dust
angelwings2dust
Burning angelwings to dust
Sun, Mar. 25th, 2007 02:58 am (UTC)

My deepest condolences to you and your family.


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sirry_addict
sirry_addict
Andry
Sun, Mar. 25th, 2007 03:39 am (UTC)

*hugs very tightly* I'm so sorry to hear about your loss; from your live journal posts in the past, it sounds like she was suffering and is in a better place now; don't feel guilty. It's all right to want their pain to go away.

♥Andry


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peromyscus
peromyscus
Peromyscus
Sun, Mar. 25th, 2007 06:43 am (UTC)

Sorry to hear the sad news :( All you can do is remember the good times you had with your grandma and know that she is now in a better place.


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faerydragonet
faerydragonet
Naneki
Sun, Mar. 25th, 2007 12:31 pm (UTC)

My condolences. I only have one grandparent left. I know how devastating it can be.


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cartoondoggy
cartoondoggy
Sara
Sun, Mar. 25th, 2007 03:20 pm (UTC)

I'm sorry for your loss.

I can understand the conflicting emotions since it seemed she was suffering for months. She must be at peace now.


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lelymarques
lelymarques
Lely
Sun, Mar. 25th, 2007 11:17 pm (UTC)

Oh I´m so sorry for you loss!
The same happened to me last month...my gandmother died and I felt guilty for not being that sad either. We were expecting this to happen anyway... hope you're ok. If you need to talk here I am :)

:-*


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axe_girl
axe_girl
Dana
Tue, Apr. 3rd, 2007 01:49 am (UTC)

I'm so sorry for your loss, I hope you are doing okay.


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